Sunday, December 23, 2012

Having no fear & guilt feeling is what confidence is


To learn something new, we need to unlearn
And to unlearn, we need to learn something new.

No one can fill the blank
Without unfilling (undoing) the same blank..

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Master -disciple relationship shouldn't be such
That master remains as master ever
And disciple remains as disciple ever.

Master being afraid of disciples overtaking him
Or at least of disciple's becoming a master, equally like him,
Were denying in the past to his disciples 
The core secret or core knowledge
To ensure disciples are ever disciples around him 
And master is secure with that..

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This world is silly and illusory. 
True.
But, to sustain this silly and illusory only
(Be it a simple smile on our children's face
Or a good nap at night
Or some simple taste on our tongue)
All the so-called serious things 
(high management and high presidency) 
Are done and invented.

Missing silly things in life,
No one can do such so-called serious things.

Life is lived and so-called serious things are done
Only to have silly things of life happening for sure in continuity.

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God does the way you do.
God talks the way you talk.
God answers the way you 
Do talk and work.

That is how the world is world
And that is how the world is made
And made to be progressing the way it is
Giving every one a kind of feel that
He does, he invents, he creates
For his own and by his own
To secure a life for him and his.

So,  pray the way you work
Talk the way you live.

Your work is the answer
To the prayer you make.

That is how the things happened for you.
Be it is a road or an aero plane or an I-phone.

Things happens to be, or made to be, in
For one or other feel, necessarily.

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The only tool and way
To be and to make us confident is
To do our part to the possible perfection.
More than just manipulation.

Basically having no fear
And having no guilt feeling  
Is what confidence is
And it is where one gets confidence
And becomes confident.


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Our inability is our inability.
And it is okay and acceptable.
But, it shouldn't be shown as
Our stand, quality and ability
To represent us in disguise.
And it should not cost others.


Our ignorance is our ignorance
And it is okay and acceptable.
But it shouldn't be claimed as
Our knowledge and expertise
For us in disguise.
And it should not cost others.

Our helplessness is our helplessness
And it is okay and acceptable.
But it shouldn't be depicted as
Our strength in and for our disguise.
And it should not cost others.


Our fear is our fear
And it is okay and acceptable.
But it shouldn’t be taken or termed
As our maturity.
And it should not cost others.

Our jealous is our jealous.
It is a fact even if it is not acceptable
But it shouldn't be represented as
Our big notion and ideology.
And it should not cost others.


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If we are unable,
We have to be bold and able enough to say
We are not able.

And have to work hard to be able.

Especially if we are not equipped enough
With the tools of ability to be able.
 
At least others will not be mislead and misguided,
At the cost of their own life.

If we are ignorant
We should be bold and able enough to represent and say
That we don't know.

And have to seek the ways to know more.

Especially if we are not equipped enough
With the tools of knowledge to be knowledgeable.
 
At least others will not be mislead, misinformed and misguided
At the cost of their own life.

If we are helpless and weak,
We should be bold and able (helplessly) to say
That we are weak and helpless.
 
And have to seek the ways to be helpful and strong.
 
Especially if we are are not equipped with
The factors of strength and helpfulness.
 
At least others will not be mislead and misguided
At their own cost in life.

True, this is a world of struggle and survival.
And one has to seek all the ways if the mere survival is at risk.
But it should be only when mere survival is at risk.

Otherwise,
We should not put blame on others (especially children)
To hide our blame of inability, ignorance and helplessness,
Putting certain other escaping justifications and excuses.

At least we have to know and remember
Children are the pearls in the paradise
Stars in the high skies of future.

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